Past Luncheons – Sunday, October 18, 2009

The online community of Marine Moms spreads far
and wide across the country and
every once in awhile things work out and we are
able to meet our online sisters, our sons’ “other mothers”, in person
and that’s what happened at this luncheon.
Ellen-Alisa was out here visiting Ali, and they
were able to join us. When Janet offered her help with the encouragement
notes I quickly took her up on her offer and asked her to join us
so she could see first hand what Marine Moms-Bethesda is all about.
It was nice to finally put real people to the emails, and I was so
happy that Janelle, Deb, Scott, Gladys, and Bob were able to meet
my online friends.
Ellen-Alisa, Ali, and I met at Janelle’s and all
of us went shopping together, first stopping by the Dollar Store for
gift bags. They had their Halloween stuff out so I loaded up on smoothie
cups for the luncheon at Mercy Hall later this month.
Then we headed over to Sam’s Club. After we finished
in Sam’s, Janelle headed back home, we picked up the rest of what
we needed next door at Wal-Mart and drove on over to Deb’s.
We made up the sandwiches and mixed up the Buffalo
Chicken Dip, then went out to dinner at one of Deb and Scott’s favorite
seafood restaurants. Ellen-Alisa had never had a crab cake, a must
have when you are in the area! After dinner we put the gift bags together
and sat around and got to know each other a little better.

The next morning we arrived at the hospital behind
Gladys and Bob, and Janet and Lew.

Janet
printed the support and encouragement notes out for us at home and
then stuffed the envelopes I brought while we were setting up. This
is what she had to say about the luncheon:
Lew and I had the privilege and honor to help serve
a luncheon at the National Naval Medical Center in Bethesda, Md.
We were both awed and amazed at the amount of food that was both homemade
and purchased for 'our' wounded heroes and their families. Jane
and all the other helpers certainly know how to put out a spread!
The delicious aroma of chili and chicken-cheese
dip was wafting down the hallway. It not only enticed those
for whom the meal was intended, but others who just wanted to see
what was going on. One of the Navy Chaplain's stopped in and
was shocked and so grateful for what MM-B was doing to make at least
a few hours feel like home.
Mostly family entered the room to partake in the
meal. They'd fill a plate so they could take it back to the
room of their loved one. One couple whose son was a patient
hadn't been eating at all. They took a smoothie back to the
room and later returned to say that it was the first 'real-food' their
son had eaten. Another dad and his little girl enjoyed a hot
meal before flying back home - he was leaving his wife with their
son.

The room was decorated in a football theme; football
balloons hung from the ceiling, a banner across the back wall, and
about 20 handmade football trees made by a local kindergarten class
donned the center of the tables. This was topped off with the
game being played in the background
MM-B has some diligent 'Elfs'.

There were goodies bags chocked full of items to
eat and lotions for the moms, handmade quilts and pillowcases, Dunkin-Donut
gift cards, beautifully made ribbons in recognition of those who served
in Iraq or Afghanistan. So many reaching out so that our
Wounded Heroes and their Families know they are thought about -
a very tangible expression of love.
The conversations we had and the patients
we met will be forever etched in our minds. Jane, hats
off to you and your faithful crew!! Thank you!
Praise God for our Brave Heroes.
Janet and Lew
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Thank you for helping us, Janet and Lew.
Ellen-Alisa, Janet and I went down to the Liaison’s
office and then over to Mercy Hall to drop off some of the Entenmanns’s
Dave sent with us. In the Liaison’s office we met Corporal G. from
2/8, wounded earlier this year, and chatted with him and the other
Marines who were there holding down the fort on a Sunday afternoon.
Cpl. G. asked us to make sure to visit the new
TBI ward so we did that, too. Most of the guys there were out on passes
and we left the bags with the snacks and notes and some take out boxes
full of food for them for when they returned. We spent some time speaking
with the nurse and one of the patients who was headed home later that
day.
To the Crew who gave up time from their very busy
schedules to help shop, do the prep work and serve the luncheon, to
our thoughtful and generous “Elfs” from all over, to the note writers
– Thank You!.
The Marine Moms-Bethesda “Elfs” are busy preparing
for the holidays. If you are interested in being an “Elf” and spreading
some cheer at Bethesda to the combat wounded, injured, and ill in-patients
and out-patients, details are here.
Until next time, continued prayers for our military
and their families.
Love and Hugs,

I finally saw the framed note from the wounded
SEAL that Brenda told us about earlier this year. It is right next
to the nurses’ station. I wish I had taken a picture of the whole
thing. I wasn’t thinking and just zoomed in on parts of it. If you
click on the picture, it will take you to a larger version of it that
you can read more easily.

