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Past Posts
 
December 2009
 
November 2009
 
October 2009
Holiday Cheer at Bethesda
 
September 2009
Never Forget!
 
August 2009
Quilt Raffle Update
Arlington visit
 
July 2009
Independence Day
 
May 2009
A Quilt and a Dream
 
April 2009
Marine Corps Museum Trip
 
March 2009
Women Marines
March is National Brain Injury Month
 
February 2009
 
January 2009
 
December 2008
 
November 2008
I am Thankful
 
My First Post
 
 
 
 
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"Holiday Cheer at Bethesda 2009"
Luncheon
December 28, 2009 -
 
I hope everyone had a peaceful holiday season. Having our Marine home safely makes Christmas all the more special to our family. Knowing I have friends with an empty chair at the table makes the holidays bittersweet. Not a day goes by I don't think of them. And not a day goes by without me giving thanks that our Marine is here with us. After four years in the Corps, he has been back in the civilian world for three years.
 
Having the new grandbaby made this year extra special. Although he wasn't quite sure what to do with the presents Santa brought him other than trying to eat the wrapping paper, he sure got a lot of lovin' from everyone. Grandpop set his trains up for the little guy, Auntie knitted him a sweet little sweater, and Gramma went out after Christmas and bought him the things Santa forgot to bring him. We won't say he's spoiled. Nah....
 
 
I'm always looking for troop support groups that focus on wounded Warrirors and their famlies. Sally sent me the link to "Hope for the Warriors".  They are providing lots of support to wounded Warrirors, their families, and Gold Star Wives.
 
Jan sent me the link to" Haley House". They provide a "home away from home" to families who are staying near the bedside of their loved one who is a patient at the James A. Haley VA Hospital in Tampa, Florida.
 
Peggy reminded me about "Hero Miles". They work through the Fisher House provding free airline tickets to wounded servicemen and women and their families.

A Different Christmas Poem

 

The embers glowed softly, and in their dim light,
 I gazed round the room and I cherished the sight.
 My wife was asleep, her head on my chest,
 My daughter beside me, angelic in rest.
 Outside the snow fell, a blanket of white,
 Transforming the yard to a winter delight.


 The sparkling lights in the tree I believe,
 Completed the magic that was Christmas Eve.
 My eyelids were heavy, my breathing was deep,
 Secure and surrounded by love I would sleep.
 In perfect contentment, or so it would seem,
 So I slumbered, perhaps I started to dream.


 The sound wasn't loud, and it wasn't too near,
 But I opened my eyes when it tickled my ear..
 Perhaps just a cough, I didn't quite know, Then the
 sure sound of footsteps outside in the snow.
 My soul gave a tremble, I struggled to hear,
 And I crept to the door just to see who was near.


 Standing out in the cold and the dark of the night,
 A lone figure stood, his face weary and tight.
 A soldier, I puzzled, some twenty years old,
 Perhaps a Marine, huddled here in the cold.
 Alone in the dark, he looked up and smiled,
 Standing watch over me, and my wife and my child.


 "What are you doing?" I asked without fear,
 "Come in this moment, it's freezing out here!
 Put down your pack, brush the snow from your sleeve,
 You should be at home on a cold Christmas Eve!"
 For barely a moment I saw his eyes shift,
 Away from the cold and the snow blown in drifts..


 To the window that danced with a warm fire's light
 Then he sighed and he said "Its really all right,
 I'm out here by choice. I'm here every night."
 "It's my duty to stand at the front of the line,
 That separates you from the darkest of times.


 No one had to ask or beg or implore me,
 I'm proud to stand here like my fathers before me.
 My Gramps died at 'Pearl on a day in December,"
 Then he sighed, "That's a Christmas 'Gram always remembers."
 My dad stood his watch in the jungles of 'Nam',
 And now it is my turn and so, here I am.


 I've not seen my own son in more than a while,
 But my wife sends me pictures, he's sure got her smile.
 Then he bent and he carefully pulled from his bag,
 The red, white, and blue... an American flag.
 "I can live through the cold and the being alone,
 Away from my family, my house and my home.


 I can stand at my post through the rain and the sleet,
 I can sleep in a foxhole with little to eat.
 I can carry the weight of killing another,
 Or lay down my life with my sister and brother..
 Who stand at the front against any and all,
 To ensure for all time that this flag will not fall.."


 "  So go back inside," he said, "harbor no fright,
 Your family is waiting and I'll be all right."
 "But isn't there something I can do, at the least,
 "Give you money," I asked, "or prepare you a feast?
 It seems all too little for all that you've done,
 For being away from your wife and your son."


 Then his eye welled a tear that held no regret,
 "Just tell us you love us, and never forget.
 To fight for our rights back at home while we're gone,
 To stand your own watch, no matter how long.
 For when we come home, either standing or dead,
 To know you remember we fought and we bled.
 Is payment enough, and with that we will trust,
 That we mattered to you as you mattered to us."


 PLEASE, would you do me the kind favor of sending this to as many people as you can? Christmas will be coming soon and some credit is due to our U.S service men and women for our being able to celebrate these festivities. Let's try in this small way to pay a tiny bit of what we owe. Make people stop and think of our heroes, living and dead, who sacrificed themselves for us.

  LCDR Jeff Giles, SC, USN
 30th Naval Construction Regiment
 OIC, Logistics Cell One
 Al Taqqadum, Iraq

A U.S. Marine with Lima Company, 3rd Battalion, 4th Marine Regiment takes cover in an orchard in the Now Zad Valley, Afghanistan, on Dec. 4, 2009. The Marines are clearing the area of the insurgent threat so the Afghans can return to their homes.   DoD photo by Cpl. Daniel M. Moman, U.S. Marine Corps. (Released)  
Below is an email that has been making its rounds through cyberspace. The picture that came along with it is one I'm not able to include here - formatting problem or something so I went to the DoD site and "borrowed" some of their pictures. They don't mind as long as the photographer is given credit.
 
Our military is serving all over the world in harm's way -- while life goes on as usual at home... Please keep them in your thoughts and prayers.
U.S. Army 1st Lt. John Cumbie, assigned to Delta Company, 2nd Battalion, 12th Infantry Regiment, 4th Brigade Combat Team, 4th Infantry Division, along with Afghan National Army Capt. Bashir (right), Commander of 3rd Company, 3rd Kandak speak with village members during a patrol in the Kolak village in Kunar province, Afghanistan, on Dec. 17, 2009.   DoD photo by Sgt. 1st Class Leonardo Torres, U.S. Army. (Released)  
U.S. Air Force pararescuemen carry an injured patient after receiving him from coalition forces in the Helmand province of Afghanistan on Dec. 8, 2009. The pararescuemen will administer medical care while transiting to a medical facility. The airmen are assigned to the 66th Expeditionary Rescue Squadron and deployed to Camp Bastion, Afghanistan.   DoD photo by Staff Sgt. Angelita Lawrence, U.S. Air Force. (Released)
NOW ZAD, Afghanistan (Dec. 18, 2009) Lt. Cmdr. Bill Schalck, assigned to 3rd Battalion, 4th Marine Regiment, examines an Afghan child during a combined medical engagement in Now Zad, Afghanistan. Schalck provides medical care for anyone who comes to the engagement. (U.S. Marine Corps photo by Cpl. Albert F. Hunt/Released)

KABUL, Afghanistan (Dec. 25, 2009) Santa chose a slightly different mode of transportation in Afghanistan to toss candy canes to children as he gave Rudolph and the other reindeer a much deserved rest while he tested out an Air Force Mine Resistant Ambush Protected (MRAP) vehicle. The flags flying represent all the nations that are contributing forces as a part of the NATO mission. (U.S. Navy photo by Capt. Jane Campbell/Released)

Or.. . maybe... life is not... going on "as usual"...
 
Tributes
 
A Visit to Arllington Cemetery
 
Memorial Day 2009
 
3/1 Memorial
 
My Brothers, Your Sons
2/7
 
Shout Out from Alabama!
 
Speak Out!
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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